Allohuma bariklana fii rojabana wa sya'ban wa balighna romadhon
Semoga Alloh Swt berikan qt kesehatan dan kesempatan utk mengoptimalkan amalan2 yg qt lakukan di bulan suci ini dan semoga qt mendapatkan kebaikan dan Berkah bulan Ramadhan, amin
Friday, September 14, 2007
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Satu malam di Jakarta
Jumat kemarin berangkat ke Jakarta, alone by travel. Ibu dan rombongan bisa naik Rosalia sementara wk yg gak kebagian naik Citra, ga papa, yg penting selamat, InsyaAlloh. Sampe di Pulomas jam 8 pagi gara2nya di tol cikampek sikomo lewat, macet hampir 2 jam. Padahal pagi ini jam 9 ada pengajian di rumah Digo, Depok sana. Jadi pas turun dari travel, semua klg dah siap di dlm mobil dan wk yg baru aja turun dari travel langsung naik mobil bareng ma rombongan Te Nini. Hampir semua adik ibu yg berjumlah sembilan orang ketemu, jadinya seru. Capek banget, tapi bisa ilang didoping ketemu keluarga. Sampai Bambon Raya jam 9 tot, whuaaa ketemu Om Anwar ..... rame banget. Digo ... Subhanalloh, detik-detik menjelang hari 'H'. Ahad paginya jam 7 diseenggarakan akad di masjid depan graha el nusa, sampai tiba saat diikrarkanya ijab kabul perjanjian sehidup semati. Gaj terasa, jatuh ... Digo ma Kiky, selamat ya; Barrakallah, semoga Alloh limpahkan Rahmat-Nya dan dijadikan sebuah klg yg sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah, semoga Kiky jodoh Digo utk dunya dan akhirat, amin
Selesai syukuran walimatul ursy kita semua plg ke Pulomas jam 2, Deg-degan jg takutnya kejebak macet di tol cawang, tp Alhamdulillah sampe rmh Pulomas jam 3an, dan wk (sendiri)harus pamit pulang duluasn coz' besoknya harus kerja. Yaah,... sebetulnya sayang banget. Masih kangen ketemu ma sepupu2, bulek2, ade kecil yg lucu2, ..... butthe showmust go on. Di anter Pak Hardi, Menur ma Sasha sampe Gambir. Sampe Gambir jam setengah lima,... sedih euy. Sampe di Sta Tawang dengan selamat jam 11 malam, shalat jamak Magrib ma Isya, beres2, tiduuuuurrrrrrrr. Padahal baru hari senin agenda jalan-jalan, huaaaaaaaa ga bisa ikut
Ais, wk minta maaf banget utk ketidakhadiran Ais. Salah wk besar banget ........ ikhlas,..... maafin wk ya. ^ - ^
To Find Some One
Somebody once told me that "Finding the right person is very hard and verywrong.....it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start fromthere... you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and definea "right person" for you...and don't rush things....coz somewhere somehowGod is preparing somebody for you."
You can never be perfect...the person you love can never be perfect...butboth of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can beperfect through the both of you.But, no relationship is complete without God.....that's why we havemarriage..it's a bond not only between you and your loved one....but also with God.
Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right person....it'sbecause we expected too much and we decided on our own....let God do thework...you may call it waiting time....but while you are waiting...pray.Let God guide you always...He knows better. No, He knows best.
Love is not what you think it is....Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last.Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind,unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone veryimportant in our life.Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined. When we thinkwe're in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us.
We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have everreceived..." After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel wethen say "You are the biggest mistake i've ever made for my entirelife...!!!!". Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you reallydeeply into it?.
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever, Till Death do us apart, etc."would end up "Never" and "We should part ways,I'm no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!". Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree "S/He ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come." But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right one?" and "When is the right time?"
That made us stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer.Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship. You're right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences andlive like hell the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention.
Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, its just pity. We call it love when we're too attachedand think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when youleast expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven.
You can never be perfect...the person you love can never be perfect...butboth of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can beperfect through the both of you.But, no relationship is complete without God.....that's why we havemarriage..it's a bond not only between you and your loved one....but also with God.
Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right person....it'sbecause we expected too much and we decided on our own....let God do thework...you may call it waiting time....but while you are waiting...pray.Let God guide you always...He knows better. No, He knows best.
Love is not what you think it is....Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last.Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind,unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone veryimportant in our life.Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined. When we thinkwe're in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us.
We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have everreceived..." After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel wethen say "You are the biggest mistake i've ever made for my entirelife...!!!!". Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you reallydeeply into it?.
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever, Till Death do us apart, etc."would end up "Never" and "We should part ways,I'm no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!". Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree "S/He ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come." But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right one?" and "When is the right time?"
That made us stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer.Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship. You're right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences andlive like hell the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention.
Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, its just pity. We call it love when we're too attachedand think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when youleast expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven.
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